FAQ

Frequently asked questions

Everything couples ask about getting married on a weekend in New York City - the legal bits, the licence, witnesses, park permits, cost and timing.

Can we really get married on a weekend?

Yes - that's the whole point. The City Clerk's office only performs ceremonies Monday to Friday, so a Saturday or Sunday wedding legally has to happen with a private registered officiant. That's me.

Are you legally allowed to marry us in New York City?

Yes. I'm ordained and registered with the New York City Office of the City Clerk, which is required to perform a marriage anywhere in the five boroughs. Being ordained alone isn't enough inside NYC - the City Clerk registration is the part that makes your signatures count.

How do we get our marriage licence?

Apply online through Project Cupid at nyc.gov/cupid, then finish in person. It's $35, both of you need to be present, and there's no residency requirement - tourists and out-of-state couples are welcome.

Is there a waiting period?

Yes - 24 hours between getting your licence and the ceremony. After that your licence stays valid for 60 days, so there's room to plan.

How many witnesses do we need?

Just one, aged 18 or over, with valid photo ID. Their name has to be listed in advance when you book the ceremony - you can't grab a stranger on the day anymore. If it's just the two of you, I can be your legal witness.

Can you be our witness even if we have our own officiant, or a City Hall booking?

Yes. The witness service works on its own - for City Hall appointments or park ceremonies - or as an add-on to a ceremony with me.

Do we need a permit to get married in a park?

Usually no. In almost every NYC park, a small ceremony (generally under 20 guests) needs no permit and costs nothing. You just can't reserve or block off the spot, so we pick a quiet time. Two exceptions need a $25 permit: Central Park's Conservatory Garden, and any group over 20 - I'm happy to arrange those.

Where can we have the ceremony?

Anywhere in the five boroughs - a park, a bridge, a rooftop, the library steps, your apartment. Popular spots include Central Park (Wagner Cove), Brooklyn Bridge Park, Prospect Park, Washington Square, the High Line, and Fort Greene Park.

How much does it cost?

Ceremonies start at $450 on weekends; a witness-only signing starts at $200. You'll get a straight quote for your specific plan - no packages you didn't ask for. The $35 licence is paid separately to the City.

How long is the ceremony?

About 15 minutes, though it's entirely up to you. It can be a quick sign-and-go or a fuller personalised ceremony with readings and your own vows.

Can we write our own vows or choose the style?

Absolutely. We can write the script together, keep it traditional, or go fully personal - religious, secular, interfaith, or somewhere in between.

How far in advance should we book?

For weekend dates, especially spring, summer, and Valentine's, 4-8 weeks is ideal. Last-minute is often possible too - reach out and I'll check availability.

What happens after the ceremony?

We sign the licence together, and I return it to the City Clerk within five days. Your official marriage certificate arrives by mail a few weeks later.

We're an LGBTQ+ couple - is that welcome?

Completely. Same-sex marriage has been legal in New York since 2011, and every couple is welcome here.

We're getting married in NYC but live abroad - will it be recognised at home?

In most cases yes, a New York marriage is recognised internationally. Some countries ask for an apostille on an extended certificate; I can point you to how to get one.

What if it rains?

We'll keep an eye on the forecast and either move to a covered spot, shift the time, or pick an indoor location like Grand Central or your apartment. Your day still happens.

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